When it comes to the Akon song "don't matter" you have to start thinking about all those people out there that get jealous and want to ruin a good relationship.
They talked all their smack to the point where they kill something so good and they don't realize what they just did.
Once you have somebody in your life make sure you realize who they are to you and leave everyone else that might want to be jealous of that out of the situation.
Akon songs makes a person realize how important they are to you when you have the biggest huge heart for them.
Akon songs will bring to the realization that no matter what anyone says you still have feelings and love that person.
Nothing that anyone will say will ever change that feeling if you both love each other.