When thinking about the Akon song no more you, realize that when a relationship is over, you don't have to be embarrassed by what has happened to you. A big peice of the puzzle has been ripped out of you and you don't realize how bad that means.
At this point, you all of the sudden naturally forget how to live life on a daily bases because your emotions take over to an extreme.
The person you loved so much has given up on you and now you have to re-establish your daily life without.